Can you tell...?

I hate choosing which eye to look at while talking to someone.  I ALWAYS wonder if they can tell which one I’m looking at, and it always bugs me.  Sometimes, I try staring at the place on their nose between each eye, but then I become paranoid that they can tell that I’m looking at that, also.  I don’t even know why I care so much about what they can see...I’m sure they don’t really care.

But this brings me to another point: people don’t look into each other’s eyes enough while speaking with them.  Looking someone in the eye is a show of confidence.  It shows that you’re confident in yourself and what you’re saying.  If someone isn’t looking me in the eye, I assume they aren’t sure of themselves, and am automatically uninterested in whatever they have to say.  If you’re not sure about what you’re speaking of, how can I be sure?  How can you ask me to believe something that you may not believe yourself?  You can’t.  So look at me when you’re talking to me if you want me to actually hear what you have to say, otherwise let me get on with what I’m doing and come back when you’re sure of yourself.